Oh, no. And in some ways, it's handy that I can only really fuss at some of the planning on Tuesdays.
You are very right that the point is to be married, and to Raz. (And I said as much to him myself earlier today.) There's just so much idiocy people seem to try and attach to the whole thing, and I gather that's only going to get worse. I intend to fling myself on the twin pillars of family tradition and Raz's preferences. (Raz's preference is that we arrange this thing with minimal misery to both of us. He'd be happy to elope, except that's clearly not possible if we want anyone ever to speak to us again.)
I am going to rely on both of you, you know, to help me keep my good humour, mind you.
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Re: Private message to Poppy Pomfrey and Pomona Sprout
Date: 2012-09-19 03:54 am (UTC)You are very right that the point is to be married, and to Raz. (And I said as much to him myself earlier today.) There's just so much idiocy people seem to try and attach to the whole thing, and I gather that's only going to get worse. I intend to fling myself on the twin pillars of family tradition and Raz's preferences. (Raz's preference is that we arrange this thing with minimal misery to both of us. He'd be happy to elope, except that's clearly not possible if we want anyone ever to speak to us again.)
I am going to rely on both of you, you know, to help me keep my good humour, mind you.
Right. Quick note to him, and then I'm teaching.